I know that about myself. As the relationship progresses and I start staying over more I will broach the subject with him, see how he feels about doing a bit more cleaning or use a cleaning service once in a while to help me feel more at home and comfortable with the place. She's asking him to change his cleaning habits. Overflowing trash cans were again perceived as laziness, as was trash being strewn around the home. Eight years ago, I married the man of my dreams.
He also is not the most creative cook.
Would you date someone that lived in a really dirty house?
Page 1 of 7. If you do try to have a say, no matter how you put it, I think you're going to come across as controlling and picky. Oh, and there was one thing that only women seemed to point out and that was smelly towels. A month? Most of us have the same problem. Beginning to live with him was an adventure in many different ways, but probably the biggest one was how differently we tackle housework and how we both see "messiness" and "cleanliness.